Imagine waking up every morning feeling powerful, peaceful, and like the most divine version of yourself. Living life as a Goddess means more than just having confidence; it’s about honoring yourself, moving through the world with purpose, and embodying the beautiful energy within. Being a Goddess is something we all can achieve, no matter where we are in life. It’s about tapping into our unique powers and connecting to our truest selves.
In this blog post, we’re diving into what it means to live, move, and feel like a Goddess every single day. Inspired by two powerful books, African Goddess Initiation by Abiola Abrams and Warrior Goddess Training by Heatherash Amara, we’ll explore what these authors teach about finding that Goddess energy and living it out in our day-to-day lives.
1. What Does It Mean to Be a Goddess?
Being a Goddess doesn’t mean having superpowers or needing to be perfect. It means recognizing the beauty, strength, and wisdom inside of you. Abiola Abrams, in African Goddess Initiation, talks about connecting with ancient African Goddesses to bring out our inner power. Each Goddess represents a part of us, like love, courage, or creativity. These are things we can all tap into, making each of us a Goddess in our own right.
Heatherash Amara, in Warrior Goddess Training, encourages us to think of being a Goddess as a journey of self-love and self-discovery. It’s not about looking a certain way or following specific rules. Instead, it’s about freeing ourselves from doubt and embracing our unique essence.
2. Moving Like a Goddess: Confidence in Every Step
Walking like a Goddess is more than just how we physically move; it’s about the energy and confidence we carry. When you think of a Goddess, you imagine someone who is sure of herself, moves gracefully, and owns her space. Here are some ways to start moving like a Goddess:
- Walk with Intention: Don’t just walk to get from place to place; walk with purpose. Imagine that each step is leading you toward your dreams and goals.
- Stand Tall: Posture matters! Standing tall with your shoulders back not only makes you look confident, but it also makes you feel powerful.
- Take Deep Breaths: Slow, deep breathing as you walk or sit brings calm and helps you stay connected to your inner peace. It’s like a mini meditation that keeps you grounded.
Abrams encourages us to connect with the energy of African Goddesses, who each have their own unique powers and personalities. Picture the Goddess you feel drawn to and imagine you’re channeling her strength as you move. Whether it’s the fierce energy of Oshun, the Goddess of love, or the protective spirit of Yemaya, the ocean Goddess, moving with this divine energy can make you feel unstoppable.
3. Living Like a Goddess: Making Every Day Sacred
Living like a Goddess is about honoring yourself, celebrating your strengths, and creating rituals that help you feel connected to something bigger than yourself. Both Abrams and Amara talk about the importance of daily practices and rituals to keep us grounded and remind us of our inner power.
Here are some simple ways to live like a Goddess every day:
- Create a Morning Ritual: Begin each day with a few moments dedicated to yourself. It could be as simple as lighting a candle, saying a mantra, or stretching. Think of this as setting the tone for a Goddess-worthy day.
- Honor Your Body: Treat your body like a temple. This can mean nourishing yourself with good food, exercising in a way you enjoy, or taking time for self-care. When you care for your body, you’re also caring for your spirit.
- Speak Kindly to Yourself: Amara encourages us to quiet the “inner critic.” Many of us have negative thoughts about ourselves. Replace those with positive affirmations like “I am powerful” or “I am worthy.”
4. Tapping into the Power of Self-Love
Self-love is at the core of being a Goddess. Both African Goddess Initiation and Warrior Goddess Training emphasize how important it is to love and accept ourselves, flaws and all. Loving yourself isn’t selfish; it’s essential. When you love yourself, you can show up more fully in the world, share your gifts, and inspire others.
Here are some ways to practice self-love daily:
- Celebrate Your Accomplishments: No matter how big or small, celebrate every win. Did you make it through a tough day? Pat yourself on the back. Did you try something new? That’s amazing! Recognizing these moments helps us build confidence and self-worth.
- Forgive Yourself: We all make mistakes. Instead of being hard on yourself, practice self-forgiveness. Imagine each mistake as a lesson, guiding you closer to your true Goddess self.
- Surround Yourself with Positivity: Fill your space with things that make you feel good, whether it’s music, books, or friends who lift you up. When we surround ourselves with positivity, we find it easier to feel positive about ourselves.
5. Embodying Goddess Energy in Relationships
Living like a Goddess also affects how we interact with others. When we feel strong and confident in ourselves, we can create healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
Both Abrams and Amara teach us about boundaries. A Goddess knows her worth and doesn’t settle for less. She sets boundaries that honor her needs and protects her energy.
Here’s how you can bring Goddess energy into your relationships:
- Set Clear Boundaries: Don’t be afraid to say no to things that drain you. A true Goddess knows when to protect her time and energy.
- Listen with Love: Listening is powerful. When you’re present and listen deeply to others, it shows respect and makes your connections stronger.
- Be True to Yourself: Don’t change who you are to fit into someone else’s expectations. Be unapologetically you. The right people will love you for who you are.
6. Using Goddess Rituals to Boost Your Energy
Rituals are special practices that help us feel connected to our inner Goddess. Abrams talks about rituals from African traditions that are powerful and full of meaning. Even if you don’t have a specific spiritual practice, creating your own rituals can make a big difference in how you feel each day.
Here are a few Goddess-inspired rituals to try:
- Gratitude Ritual: Every evening, write down three things you’re grateful for. This simple act of gratitude can change your mindset and help you focus on the positive.
- Full Moon Ceremony: The full moon is a time for releasing what no longer serves us. On the next full moon, write down things you want to let go of and burn the paper (safely!) as a symbol of release.
- Connect with Nature: Spending time in nature helps us feel grounded and connected to the earth. Go for a walk, sit in the sun, or meditate outside.
7. Finding Your Own Inner Goddess Archetype
One of the most fun parts of exploring Goddess energy is discovering which type of Goddess you relate to the most. Both Abrams and Amara encourage us to connect with Goddess archetypes, which are different personalities or energies that we might feel drawn to. Here are some examples:
- The Warrior Goddess: She’s fierce, brave, and stands up for what she believes in. If you feel a strong need to protect others or fight for justice, you might be a warrior Goddess at heart.
- The Healer Goddess: This Goddess is nurturing and compassionate. If you love helping others and bringing peace, you may embody the healer Goddess.
- The Creative Goddess: Full of inspiration and ideas, the creative Goddess loves to express herself through art, writing, or any kind of creation.
Once you identify the Goddess type you connect with, you can start embodying that energy in your life. Let it guide how you approach challenges, relationships, and self-care.
8. Living with Purpose: A Goddess-Driven Life
Finally, living like a Goddess means living with purpose. Heatherash Amara in Warrior Goddess Training talks about the importance of finding our purpose, whether it’s big or small. A Goddess doesn’t drift aimlessly; she has a direction and intention in everything she does.
- Set Goals with Meaning: Instead of just focusing on what you want to achieve, think about why you want to achieve it. When our goals have meaning, it’s easier to stay motivated and feel fulfilled.
- Make a Vision Board: A vision board is a fun way to map out your dreams and desires. Fill it with images and words that inspire you and reflect the life you want to create.
- Celebrate the Journey: Being a Goddess isn’t about reaching perfection; it’s about enjoying the journey of self-discovery and growth.
Conclusion: The Daily Practice of Being a Goddess
Becoming a Goddess isn’t something that happens overnight. It’s a journey of embracing who we are, honoring our inner power, and living with love, courage, and grace. Whether you find inspiration in African Goddess Initiation or Warrior Goddess Training, remember that every day is a chance to practice and grow.
So go ahead—walk like a Goddess, live like a Goddess, and most importantly, believe in the Goddess within you. This journey is about celebrating yourself in all your beautiful, unique glory. Let the Goddess in you shine bright!